How to talk to your kid about the fire

Honest, simple, age-right ways to talk about the fire.

What helps

Start by asking what they already know or worry about, and follow their lead.
Be honest, but keep it simple and right for their age. You don't have to explain everything.
Don't flood them with details or scary images.
Let them know their feelings make sense and that you're there.
It's okay to say "I don't know." It's okay for them to see you have feelings too, as long as you stay steady.

Why this matters

Kids cope better when a calm adult listens honestly and consistently, and when they feel safe asking questions. You don't need the perfect words. You need to be steady and present.

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